Marriage

I realized lately that many of my friends marriage didn't last, function or brewing trouble. It is true that every marriage will have its ups and downs, however it is compromise that moves the marriage along.

You will only know the person true colours only after you started to live with him or her.
Only then, you will know whether you have made the right decision, there is no such thing as a perfect partner, only emotional, tacky and insensible human being in front of you. Sometimes you need that that partner needs a good kick up up her or his ass, only to realized that it is not the solution.

I truly believe in compromise but sometimes you just need to tell the other party that something is not right. Sometimes, being silent helps.

For Kyn,Srichantique and Nina,

Do not despair and lost hope. That is very wrong. Tears won't solve your problems but your doa to HIM will be a starting point. Look inside yourself, see if there is any soul. Start to love yourself and tell yourself you need to be pampered too. Don't forget your LORD, never forget your prayers and when times are bad, open the Holy Book, the answers are there.

To my dear wife, do not be content with being yourself. Change your outlook and get out of your comfort zone. I did and things are changing slowly and surely for the better.